How to be a pallbearer
If you've been asked to help carry the coffin, the funeral director will be on hand to give practical help and guidance.
Here are some tips to help you:
- People of similar heights should be next to each other with shorter bearers at the front
- The funeral director will help you lift the coffin onto your shoulder
- Keep the coffin close to you as you walk
- Follow the lead of the funeral director and walk in step together with the other pallbearers
- Keep your back straight and your head up
If for any reason you don’t feel able to carry the coffin on the day, let your Funeral Director know. There may be other options, such as:
- Finding other family or friends who can help carry in your place
- We use a wheeled bier, which you can walk alongside or in front of
We will always make sure your loved one reaches the service safely and respectfully.
Don’t feel nervous about asking for help. Funeral directors do this every day and know how to guide and reassure you.
